ESTJ & ENTJ

ENTJ & ESTJ: Do You Relate To This?
This is something that I noticed about me and my ENTJ best friend.

One of my HS friend asked me if I wanna joined him and his friends to spend the weekend together at some cottage near the beach. I said yes and I took my ENTJ best friend with me. Me, my ENTJ, my HS friend, and his friends met at a meeting point and continued our journey to the beach by private bus.

First Impression
At first impression, me and my ENTJ looked quiet, mature, and reserved. We didn't look shy or uncomfortable.

Dress
I noticed that we have similar fashion style, but different taste. We both likes solid color, we likes to match our clothes, we don't like laces or ruffles or ribbons or pictures, and we don't wear more than two colors at one time. But her chosen colors are more neutral and "safe", while I prefer eye catching and unusual colors.

That day, my ENTJ wore dark purple jacket, white shirt, white short, and black sandal. I was wearing shocking pink shirt, khaki trouser, and shocking pink sandal. See what I'm saying? Match, solid color, yet different.

At The Bus
When others started to have chit chat and joking to each other, me and my ENTJ stay out of it and were very quiet. My ENTJ put on her MP3 and slightly looking at the street, oblivious to her surroundings.

I used my five sense to observing my surroundings. I studied the jokes, the conversations, the mimics, the dress, the behavior, the street, the bus, the clouds, everything. I gather all the informations and analyze it, and when I was analyzing everything, I looked like lost in my own thoughts.

Jokes
When we got there at the cottage, we had dinner together and started the conversation. We joke, we laughed, we asked and answered, we had fun. Our Extrovertness shining brightly.

When joking, I kinda "go with the flow" and use exaggerate body language. Since I had studied them before, I adapted very easily and clicked others very smoothly. It was like I was one of their cliques all this time. My jokes goes like this. I was playing hand gesture with some guy, when his friend started to joke with me.
Her: "Hey, you're touching my husband!" (just a joke, he wasn't her husband)
Me: (exaggerate body language) "Oh, really?! Just so you know, YOUR husband is MY gigolo. I'm paying him for tonight."

While my ENTJ kept her calmness. She didn't go with the flow, she's out of the flow. Her jokes contains witty remarks that was out of their joking style. Like this one.
A guy: "I'm wondering what my girlfriend is doing right now." (just a joke, he doesn't has any girlfriend)
ENTJ: (plain face and neutral tone) "I bet she's dating your boyfriend."

Bed Time
When the dinner was over and the conversations started to get dull, and everyone was started to play poker or watching TV, me and my ENTJ sneak out to our room to rest. We didn't enjoy too much frivolous conversation.

On bed, we didn't talk to each other. My ENTJ put her MP3 again and played with her cellphone, texting her boyfriend or playing facebook.

While I lay beside her, completely lost in my own thoughts again. I ignored every call and text. I also stopped visiting facebook since months ago. I even removed 70% of my friends from my facebook friend list.

I was processing every single thing that had happened that day. Reviewing every scene, every situation, every sentences. Took explicit informations, dig hidden informations, analyzing everything over and over again until I lost my consciousness and fell asleep.

Protective
Me and my ENTJ are very protective to each other, but we have different way in expressing it.

My ENTJ use calm manner and try to rationalize things. Like when one of my HS friend's friends tried to teased me and said that he thinks I'm crazy for saying such and such. My ENTJ reaction was like: "She's not crazy. That's just the way she is. Blah3x..."
Me: (making funny faces behind her for no reason)
The guy: "Errr... okayyy..." (chuckled and left)

While I'm more straight-forward and intimidating. Like one of the guys tried to teased her. She was being polite and gave plain-smile. I took a stand right in front of him.
Me: (glared at him and speak in intimidating deep voice) "Cut off your dullness! Be gone!"
ENTJ: (rofl)
The guy: "Ah, I sense the danger. I shall leave." (big grin and ran)

Back Home
When the vacation was over, we're back to the city by private bus. My HS friend asked if I wanna join him and his friends to eat meat ball at some small restaurant. I said no. When they left, me and my ENTJ went to some expensive restaurant to spoil ourselves in fine dining.

I noticed that this is our another similarity: we always do the best we can in every situation (job, romance, family, friends, etc), being the top in everything we do, and we also expect the best that we can have. We don't mind to spend more for comfort, excellent quality, and luxury.

Are there any ENTJ or ESTJ that relate to this? Is there anything you would like to add?