is when you found someone you really like. Because it's not easy to fall in love. It's not easy to find someone that can capture your heart among the crowd of faces. It's not easy to have someone keep appearing in your head. It's not very often that you always want to see one particular person all the time. It's rare that when you're next to that person, it makes you feel complete, even without having a conversation.
is when you fight and argue because you care. Because you're a little confused. While you give so much in the relationship, you're afraid the person wouldn't do the same. You have expectations because you believe, want to believe or want that person to be the one. You'll hoping that they would change. When you have no more expectations of the relationship, it only means that you have given up and lost faith in it.
is when you suddenly found yourself doing things you have never done before. Like going an extra length. Working a little harder. Planning for your future. When you walk in the mall, you would look at things and whisper to yourself, "He/She would love this."
You want to make every moment special, every celebration memorable.
is when your other half has met most of your family members and friends. Is when your friends tell you to bring your other half out. When your family is fond of that special someone. Is when your special someone do little things for your family as well. Whenever you're in their house, you feel like you're part of them. When their parents respect your time alone with him/her. When you're included in any special family event.
is when you come back every argument. Cold war makes you torn. You knew if you call them back, you're the winner. Because you're rational. Because you care more about the relationship than your pride. Because you know that every arguments do not indicate that it's the end of the relationship, it's just something you need to work on. Everytime you think of leaving, there's just something that holds you back.
is when you know what makes them happy. And what makes them sad. Cheating may be tempting. But the thought of hurting the one you love kills you.
is when you find nothing, nothing wrong with your partner appearances and their abilities. You're fond of their hair, the way they look. Even when you felt like crap or when the mirror tells you the truth on how you look on a particular day, your partner felt that there is nothing wrong with it. Your partner only want you to feel good or better about yourself. Your partner has fallen in love with you, not whatever you have. Instead of feeling disgusted and disappointed, his/her arms are wrapped around you. That is how you feel whole.
is when you start picturing your future. The proposal. The wedding. You even start picturing how your kids would look like. Whether like your partner or like you. You take the nice features of your partner's and yours and combine them together as you imagined your beautiful child.
The thought of that lit up your face and you find yourself working harder to bring out the best in you because you want your partner to feel proud of you. You putting more effort in self-development and not looking anywhere else for anyone, because the one you want is just a mere touch away.
A real relationship takes a lot of faith to work out. From both the individuals. It's the thoughts that drives your words, your words into action, your action into habits, and thus, create the character you are towards the relationship.
Happy Valentine's to the couples who will be celebrating soon.
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