2) Negative inforcement.
3) Threaten.
4) Guilt-trips.
5) Emotional manipulation.
6) Say that they think or talk too much.
7) Pressure them to express their true feelings.
8) Betray- Forgives easily but NEVER forget and trust again.
9) Don't lie. They are good at spotting liars. Once caught, never to be trusted again. Just hit them with the truth.
10) Blame and pass stupid judgements.
An ENFP will appreciate you greatly if:
a) You trust them despite their inconsistent words and behaviours. They would never intend to hurt anybody or have bad intentions.
b) Give them ample of space.