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Wednesday, August 17, 2011
Saturday, August 13, 2011
ESTJ & ENTJ
ENTJ & ESTJ: Do You Relate To This?
This is something that I noticed about me and my ENTJ best friend.
One of my HS friend asked me if I wanna joined him and his friends to spend the weekend together at some cottage near the beach. I said yes and I took my ENTJ best friend with me. Me, my ENTJ, my HS friend, and his friends met at a meeting point and continued our journey to the beach by private bus.
First Impression
At first impression, me and my ENTJ looked quiet, mature, and reserved. We didn't look shy or uncomfortable.
Dress
I noticed that we have similar fashion style, but different taste. We both likes solid color, we likes to match our clothes, we don't like laces or ruffles or ribbons or pictures, and we don't wear more than two colors at one time. But her chosen colors are more neutral and "safe", while I prefer eye catching and unusual colors.
That day, my ENTJ wore dark purple jacket, white shirt, white short, and black sandal. I was wearing shocking pink shirt, khaki trouser, and shocking pink sandal. See what I'm saying? Match, solid color, yet different.
At The Bus
When others started to have chit chat and joking to each other, me and my ENTJ stay out of it and were very quiet. My ENTJ put on her MP3 and slightly looking at the street, oblivious to her surroundings.
I used my five sense to observing my surroundings. I studied the jokes, the conversations, the mimics, the dress, the behavior, the street, the bus, the clouds, everything. I gather all the informations and analyze it, and when I was analyzing everything, I looked like lost in my own thoughts.
Jokes
When we got there at the cottage, we had dinner together and started the conversation. We joke, we laughed, we asked and answered, we had fun. Our Extrovertness shining brightly.
When joking, I kinda "go with the flow" and use exaggerate body language. Since I had studied them before, I adapted very easily and clicked others very smoothly. It was like I was one of their cliques all this time. My jokes goes like this. I was playing hand gesture with some guy, when his friend started to joke with me.
Her: "Hey, you're touching my husband!" (just a joke, he wasn't her husband)
Me: (exaggerate body language) "Oh, really?! Just so you know, YOUR husband is MY gigolo. I'm paying him for tonight."
While my ENTJ kept her calmness. She didn't go with the flow, she's out of the flow. Her jokes contains witty remarks that was out of their joking style. Like this one.
A guy: "I'm wondering what my girlfriend is doing right now." (just a joke, he doesn't has any girlfriend)
ENTJ: (plain face and neutral tone) "I bet she's dating your boyfriend."
Bed Time
When the dinner was over and the conversations started to get dull, and everyone was started to play poker or watching TV, me and my ENTJ sneak out to our room to rest. We didn't enjoy too much frivolous conversation.
On bed, we didn't talk to each other. My ENTJ put her MP3 again and played with her cellphone, texting her boyfriend or playing facebook.
While I lay beside her, completely lost in my own thoughts again. I ignored every call and text. I also stopped visiting facebook since months ago. I even removed 70% of my friends from my facebook friend list.
I was processing every single thing that had happened that day. Reviewing every scene, every situation, every sentences. Took explicit informations, dig hidden informations, analyzing everything over and over again until I lost my consciousness and fell asleep.
Protective
Me and my ENTJ are very protective to each other, but we have different way in expressing it.
My ENTJ use calm manner and try to rationalize things. Like when one of my HS friend's friends tried to teased me and said that he thinks I'm crazy for saying such and such. My ENTJ reaction was like: "She's not crazy. That's just the way she is. Blah3x..."
Me: (making funny faces behind her for no reason)
The guy: "Errr... okayyy..." (chuckled and left)
While I'm more straight-forward and intimidating. Like one of the guys tried to teased her. She was being polite and gave plain-smile. I took a stand right in front of him.
Me: (glared at him and speak in intimidating deep voice) "Cut off your dullness! Be gone!"
ENTJ: (rofl)
The guy: "Ah, I sense the danger. I shall leave." (big grin and ran)
Back Home
When the vacation was over, we're back to the city by private bus. My HS friend asked if I wanna join him and his friends to eat meat ball at some small restaurant. I said no. When they left, me and my ENTJ went to some expensive restaurant to spoil ourselves in fine dining.
I noticed that this is our another similarity: we always do the best we can in every situation (job, romance, family, friends, etc), being the top in everything we do, and we also expect the best that we can have. We don't mind to spend more for comfort, excellent quality, and luxury.
Are there any ENTJ or ESTJ that relate to this? Is there anything you would like to add?
This is something that I noticed about me and my ENTJ best friend.
One of my HS friend asked me if I wanna joined him and his friends to spend the weekend together at some cottage near the beach. I said yes and I took my ENTJ best friend with me. Me, my ENTJ, my HS friend, and his friends met at a meeting point and continued our journey to the beach by private bus.
First Impression
At first impression, me and my ENTJ looked quiet, mature, and reserved. We didn't look shy or uncomfortable.
Dress
I noticed that we have similar fashion style, but different taste. We both likes solid color, we likes to match our clothes, we don't like laces or ruffles or ribbons or pictures, and we don't wear more than two colors at one time. But her chosen colors are more neutral and "safe", while I prefer eye catching and unusual colors.
That day, my ENTJ wore dark purple jacket, white shirt, white short, and black sandal. I was wearing shocking pink shirt, khaki trouser, and shocking pink sandal. See what I'm saying? Match, solid color, yet different.
At The Bus
When others started to have chit chat and joking to each other, me and my ENTJ stay out of it and were very quiet. My ENTJ put on her MP3 and slightly looking at the street, oblivious to her surroundings.
I used my five sense to observing my surroundings. I studied the jokes, the conversations, the mimics, the dress, the behavior, the street, the bus, the clouds, everything. I gather all the informations and analyze it, and when I was analyzing everything, I looked like lost in my own thoughts.
Jokes
When we got there at the cottage, we had dinner together and started the conversation. We joke, we laughed, we asked and answered, we had fun. Our Extrovertness shining brightly.
When joking, I kinda "go with the flow" and use exaggerate body language. Since I had studied them before, I adapted very easily and clicked others very smoothly. It was like I was one of their cliques all this time. My jokes goes like this. I was playing hand gesture with some guy, when his friend started to joke with me.
Her: "Hey, you're touching my husband!" (just a joke, he wasn't her husband)
Me: (exaggerate body language) "Oh, really?! Just so you know, YOUR husband is MY gigolo. I'm paying him for tonight."
While my ENTJ kept her calmness. She didn't go with the flow, she's out of the flow. Her jokes contains witty remarks that was out of their joking style. Like this one.
A guy: "I'm wondering what my girlfriend is doing right now." (just a joke, he doesn't has any girlfriend)
ENTJ: (plain face and neutral tone) "I bet she's dating your boyfriend."
Bed Time
When the dinner was over and the conversations started to get dull, and everyone was started to play poker or watching TV, me and my ENTJ sneak out to our room to rest. We didn't enjoy too much frivolous conversation.
On bed, we didn't talk to each other. My ENTJ put her MP3 again and played with her cellphone, texting her boyfriend or playing facebook.
While I lay beside her, completely lost in my own thoughts again. I ignored every call and text. I also stopped visiting facebook since months ago. I even removed 70% of my friends from my facebook friend list.
I was processing every single thing that had happened that day. Reviewing every scene, every situation, every sentences. Took explicit informations, dig hidden informations, analyzing everything over and over again until I lost my consciousness and fell asleep.
Protective
Me and my ENTJ are very protective to each other, but we have different way in expressing it.
My ENTJ use calm manner and try to rationalize things. Like when one of my HS friend's friends tried to teased me and said that he thinks I'm crazy for saying such and such. My ENTJ reaction was like: "She's not crazy. That's just the way she is. Blah3x..."
Me: (making funny faces behind her for no reason)
The guy: "Errr... okayyy..." (chuckled and left)
While I'm more straight-forward and intimidating. Like one of the guys tried to teased her. She was being polite and gave plain-smile. I took a stand right in front of him.
Me: (glared at him and speak in intimidating deep voice) "Cut off your dullness! Be gone!"
ENTJ: (rofl)
The guy: "Ah, I sense the danger. I shall leave." (big grin and ran)
Back Home
When the vacation was over, we're back to the city by private bus. My HS friend asked if I wanna join him and his friends to eat meat ball at some small restaurant. I said no. When they left, me and my ENTJ went to some expensive restaurant to spoil ourselves in fine dining.
I noticed that this is our another similarity: we always do the best we can in every situation (job, romance, family, friends, etc), being the top in everything we do, and we also expect the best that we can have. We don't mind to spend more for comfort, excellent quality, and luxury.
Are there any ENTJ or ESTJ that relate to this? Is there anything you would like to add?
Wednesday, August 3, 2011
Facebook Nonsense
I know I am kinda mean... but seriously...this is just shows that people are generally gullible and....stupid? I am sorry.. maybe you can say just take this as a joke or use other famous people's name instead of Bill Gates...but seriously, do you think this will work? LOL
Tuesday, August 2, 2011
Momma
I had this crazy conversation with my bestie about the the crazy things our mom said and did. Then, I start to wonder, what kind of momma I will be?
This is out of speculation/ based on who I think I would be:
1) Since I know MBTI, I would observe my child like the most amazing creature on earth. I would provide education which they are naturally good in, and make them the best at it. I will not force them to adhere to society's viewpoint of what's good and what's not. Basically on what they are naturally good at. I will make sure they are happy.
2) I would cook different kinds of food everyday. Sometimes, it may be a little too weird and my children would be my guinea pigs. They might either enjoy or grumble everytime I come up with a new dish.
3) I might not always be at home. :( I will teach my children to be independent. Go to school in the morning, probably rest then tuition/classes/sports then at night, I will sit with them to talk about their day. I might not be the one waking them up, picking them from school and so on.
4) House chores. I will do them for the sake of doing them. Probably will hire a part-time maid once a week to do the cleaning stuff. My husband would most likely be a J. Someone neat and organized. He would be the one putting things in order.
5) I will be strict with my children. No means no. It would hurt me to see them cry or feel sad when I scold or punish them. Probably I would give in due to guilt but I will try to impose discipline on them. My husband will be the one punishing them. He will be the bad guy. LOL
6) I will dress my baby in a bee suit, a bunny suit or a carrot suit and bring him/her out to the mall.
7) I will have a family outing thing every Sunday. My husband must be someone who loves family and keen on these stuff.
8) I will have less than 4 kids.
9) My kids will be my personal slaves who are willing. The power of psychology manipulation. LOL.
10) I will pay my bills online.
11) My sister would drop in once in a while to wash the baby's poop or to cook for us.
12) My family would not face financial problems.
13) I will be at home 50% of the time.
14) My husband loves kids.
15) I will teach them the meaning of life and let them experience various things.
16) I will not spoil them with expensive gadgets or toys.
17) I will make them work in order to realize the value of money.
18) My children will look like red tomatoes.
19) I will teach them how to avoid and deal with conflicts.
20) I know I may not be perfect, with wanting to live a life of my own and not always being at home 24/7, but I will be there every Sunday, every night to sneak into their bedrooms to give them a kiss, always surprising them on their birthdays and Christmas and cook their favourite meals with not too much altering. I will listen to them and understand how they feel. Give them the support they need. I will also not argue in front of them with my husband. I will not let my problems be theirs. I will also never let them face divorce. I will be all I wish I could have, as a child.
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